In October 2004, I tried to explain baseball to my 4 year old daughter.
"Emily," I said; "You know why Daddy's been so excited lately? The Red Sox beat the Yankees! They're going to the World Series!"
Emily didn't miss a beat. "Poor Yankees!"
"No, not poor Yankees!" I spluttered; "Don't feel sorry for them. They always win!"
My daughter didn't understand why anyone would not root for a team that always wins. Winning sounded good to her, and I felt like I had dropped an easy pop fly and unwittingly made a Yankee fan out of my little girl at the very moment that Red Sox fans were living our impossible dream.
I shouldn't have worried. Choosing sides is not decided by parents but by peers, and kindergarten in Northwest Connecticut is disputed territory on the tattered fringe of Red Sox Nation. Watching them claw back to take the pennant from the Yankees was not a simple matter of walking into the neighboring bar and cheering at the big screen - you had to pick the right bar or there would be nothing but pinstripes on display and no one to buy you a celebratory round. Emily figured out by 1st grade that if her father was a Red Sox fan, then so was she, though she had never had the opportunity even to watch a game on TV until this year, since we pulled the plug on our set years ago and all it shows are dvds.
We stayed in a hotel on the way to Monhegan a few weeks ago, and the game was on. Emily and Elias suddenly saw the emerald grass under the lights, the red dirt on crisp white uniform shirts, and heard their avowedly anti-baseball mother shouting at the umpires. I can only imagine what they will think when they get to see the big show at Fenway one of these days. We will work our way up to it, taking in a Cape Cod League game of the Wareham Gatemen on Monday.
I asked Elias which player he liked and he smiled and replied; "Big Papi." Good choice for a little boy .
"I love Manny" said his sister, "He's so cute!" Hoo, boy. At least she didn't fall for Derek Jeeter.



Parts of CT really are tough in those areas where NY fans start trickling in. I went to college in NJ and there were a few of those Patriots/Yankees fans... really convenient for them! It use to drive me nuts seeing them in their Pats Jerseys and Yankee hats... Enough to make a die-hard Boston fan like myself sick! The Cape Cod league games really are a great time. My dad use to take me as a kid. We always had a Cape Cod vacation rental and made it a point to see a few games every time we were there. I feel like sports really are the best bonding experience for a kid and their dad.
Posted by: Molly Stevens | March 06, 2013 at 12:16 PM
I love the sox! The way I look at it is that New York is not part of New England.-The Red Sox are New England's only Major League Baseball team!
Posted by: Larry | July 22, 2007 at 07:14 PM